• @nednobbins@lemm.ee
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    411 year ago

    They could have left out, “for LGBTQ+ people” and it would have been just as accurate.

  • Gnome Kat
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    351 year ago

    Mastodon is pretty great for queer people. Better than lemmy I would say (and obviously better than the mainstream apps) …

    • Jolteon
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      341 year ago

      Lemmy is probably the worst social network in terms of discrimination against Windows users.

      • @Duamerthrax@lemmy.world
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        41 year ago

        Really? I would say it’s the best for discrimination against Windows users. Better then even old school slashdot.

      • @mPony@lemmy.world
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        11 year ago

        Lemmy is probably the worst social network in terms of discrimination against Windows users

        a) funny b) were you around for USENET ? it was occasionally troublesome in the same way.

  • @Etterra@lemmy.world
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    351 year ago

    Let me fix that for ya…

    X is the worst social media app for LGBTQ+ people

    No wait…

    X is the worst social media app for LGBTQ+ people

    Oh almost forgot…

    X Twitter is the worst social media app for LGBTQ+ people

    There were go.

  • paraphrand
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    1 year ago

    Oof, the article goes on to say all the platforms failed. X just failed a bit more.

    This is going to lead to some “well, they’re all about the same.” discourse shenanigans.

    • Gormadt
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      141 year ago

      I’m surprised those scores are so high honestly

      It’s fuckin hard being queer on social media

      • @radicalautonomy@lemmy.world
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        71 year ago

        I gotta say, I am pleasantly surprised by Lemmy. I almost never see anything but antifascist allies, and when I do those allies jump that motherfucker’s shit.

        • Gormadt
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          91 year ago

          Lemmy has it’s own dens of awful that simp pretty hard for dictators and some pretty shitty regimes

          Luckily my instance is defederated from the worst one (IMO)

          Lemmy is definitely a lot more accepting of queer people though which I really dig

  • @mctoasterson@reddthat.com
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    I have not been active on Zuck platforms or Twitter in over 10 years and it is highly recommended. I haven’t been on Reddit since the API changes killed Infinity app. Also recommended. Never touched TikTok or any of the zoomer social media platforms. Extremely recommended.

    Amazingly if you just avoid the cesspit of constant engagement, regardless of your life circumstances, you will be happier.

    Besides, most things that are genuinely funny or useful on Twitter just get screenshotted and shared via other means anyway.

    • @Jakdracula@lemmy.world
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      51 year ago

      I was an early beta tester for twitter. Didn’t “get it” then, and I still don’t “get it”.

      I haven’t been on any Zuck platforms ever and left Reddit during the API mess, I also don’t use TikTok or LinkedIN and recommend to all leaving corporate social media.

      • @captainlezbian@lemmy.world
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        21 year ago

        Yeah I use tumblr occasionally but I just don’t like the “follow people” model of social media. Communities make for more interesting content in my experience. I’d rather discuss than merely consume and I don’t really care what someone who has great takes on lesbian discourse has to say about a manga I have no intention on reading unless it’s relevant.

  • @VerticaGG@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    151 year ago

    This is Not news for queer* people.

    I am in this instance using “Queer” to mean an umbrella for all who are othered by society.

    I’m telling you that people with lifelong chronic disability, people who are sex workers, and people who are dispropotionately targeted by the law enforcement or the state, AND disenfranchised casually in everyday society because of their appearance and/or melanin levels…All have networks of contacts they have relied on for over a decade in many cases.

    It was easy for me to get off Twitter but for a lot of people I care about, it’d mean severing so many important bonds…and I just thought this sentiment is something that someone reading might apply too, as well

      • @VerticaGG@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        21 year ago

        Oh ofc…and i wanted to use this moment to point out tge real-world outcomes that people are experiencing, because it’s all too easy to fall into the trap of perceiving it as solely hypoyhetical. (Nearly wrote it off myself as “well, itll be nothing but bots soon”…but im tryna illustrate it just aint that simple)

    • @sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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      31 year ago

      This sounds like a general issue of: if you’re at the margins of society, you’re going to have a bad time on social media. Social media is a distillation of the majority opinion on things (i.e. the most extreme versions of majority opinions), and if the majority is intolerant, you’ll get the worst of the intolerance.

      For example, society’s general perception is that sex work is gross, so the most extreme view of that is that sex work is literally corrupting our kids, so you’ll get that kind of pushback on social media. A lot of people are uncomfortable with LGBT issues, so the most extreme form of that is attacking LGBT people. Unpopular opinions tend to get attacked, extreme forms of popular opinions tend to stay and get boosted (usually the extreme form is hidden 3-4 levels deep in a discussion thread).

      • @VerticaGG@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        71 year ago

        Important to remind people that it’s not theoretical when we talk about it. It’s real human beings that are being scapegoated. It’s real abusers that get a smokescreen.

        • @sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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          31 year ago

          I 100% agree, which is a huge part of why I don’t engage much with social media. Lemmy is literally it for me.

          I’m not in a marginalized group, I just refuse to engage with that nonsense. I don’t have any solutions for those who are impacted, other than try to build real-world connections with people. Maybe local meetups are a good option here, idk.

          Good luck out there! Stay safe!

          • @VerticaGG@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            21 year ago

            Thanks. Vest advice I have to any person looking to help, is dont just be a passive ally. Step up as an accomplice. When there’s a police protected parade of alt-right demonstrators, show them that they’re outnumbered. The SRA does a good job of that, as one example.

            The other advice is that whatever space you exist in, be proactive in showing bigots that there’s no place at the table at your club.

            To anyone reading: Just dont do nothing. You are as powerful as your solidarity.

  • @JIMMERZ@lemm.ee
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    141 year ago

    Twitter has never been great, just easy to use and widely adopted. It’s gotten worse under Musk and mostly appeals to the worst people left on the platform.

    • @afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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      11 year ago

      It had its moments. Back in the day I had all the libraries and park feeds in my area on it. Could just plan out my week with my kids in one spot. Yes I tried using a RSS reader but the websites weren’t as updated as the Twitter feeds were.

  • Willow.
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    91 year ago

    the worst, if you don’t count Gab and Truth Social

  • @taiyang@lemmy.world
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    91 year ago

    Meanwhile, Tumblr is (or was?) incredibly queer back when I used it. Where’s the love?

    Reddit should have got a mention, but you know who really wins? Good ol’ Lemmy-- LGBTQ (especially T) representing here. Although that’s cheating cause we have blahaj, haha (not like the Fediverse will ever get mentioned, lol)

  • @Tattorack@lemmy.world
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    81 year ago

    I mean, yeah, that’s true… On the basis that it’s the worst social media platform for… Anything at all.